Some Day's It Will be 60/40.

Yeah, it's one of those posts. Maybe one you need to hear.

Get yourself a partner that puts you first. Someone who goes out of their way for you. Relationships are not easy. Parenting is not easy. Step-parenting is not easy!! Lives get busy, our jobs and children take us away from one another. We all speak our own love languages, but even then, we all need love.

Some people grow apart and some peoples love continues to grow, either way, everything truly happens for a reason. We are the ones who choose how to live our lives, life is hard. Period. It's up to you to make your life what you want it to be. We aren't on this earth forever and those we love aren't with us forever either.

It's 2023, dishes laundry and staying home with the kids isn't just for mom. Mowing the lawn, plowing the snow and fixing the leaks isn't just for Dad. A real relationship is a partnership and what works best for YOU. Not everyone else. Not everyone loves the same, and that's okay.

You know how many times people have laughed at us for the way we love one another? Plenty. Do I care? No. Most of those people are seeking that same kind of love. No matter what you need in your relationship, never think it is too much. There is a person who will give you exactly what you need and if it's not your current partner, that's okay too. You're together now for a reason, a life lesson, growth and maturity. We grow through what we go through, honestly.

Relationships aren't always 50/50. Sometimes is 20/80 and that's okay. So the next time your partner is sick, go out of your way to ease them and show them you care. The next time your partner is depleted, pull your weight! Relationships aren't a competition, they're a partnership.